Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Evie at 4 Weeks Old

Evie is 4 weeks old as of this past Sunday.

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  • She has a bit of a baby mullet. Business in the front, party in the back. But since she's a baby, it's more like party in the front, party in the back. Especially at 2:00 in the morning.
  • On Friday night/Saturday morning, she went 5 hours between feedings in the middle of the night. I hope that is a trend that continues and ends with her sleeping through the night by the time I go back to work.
  • On Saturday night/Sunday morning, she didn't go to sleep until about 3:00 in the morning, but then she slept until about 7:00 in the morning (about 5 hours between feedings again). Boo to the not sleeping until 3:00 am, but yay to sleeping for a four-hour stretch.
  • On Sunday night/Monday morning, she fed about 10:45 pm, went down to sleep about 45 minutes to an hour later, and then didn't wake up again till 4:00something. She went right back to sleep after the 4:00something feeding and then didn't get up again until about 8:00 am. It was great. Again, I hope it continues . . .
  • She went to the pediatrician's earlier in the week. She was about 9 lbs and 22 inches long. The pediatrician also got rid of her remaining umbilical stump (it didn't completely fall off before).
  • She had her toesies dipped into the pool while we were at a friend's house this weekend. She didn't seem to know what to think of it.
  • She got a real bath this weekend, seeing as how all her umbilical stump is now gone. She didn't seem to mind too much.
  • I tried on a pair of my looser jeans over the weekend. I managed to get them on. Win! I couldn't zip or button them up though. Fail.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Evie at 3 Weeks Old

Evie is 3 weeks old as of this past Sunday.

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  • She likes to be held while bouncing on the exercise ball.
  • It makes me feel like a bad parent when I try to put her down for a nap and can't get her to fall asleep, but . . .
  • Swaddling really does seem to help when I'm putting her down for a nap or to sleep, per The Happiest Baby on the Block. It seems most effective if she's not already too worked up, awake, or fussy, otherwise she's too hard to swaddle.
  • I'm afraid of her not being able to sleep through the night by the time I go back to work. Several nights, she's been able to do roughly four-hour stretches after the 11:00ish feeding at night. Now I have to figure out how to get her to do two of those back-to-back.
  • Since I see her everyday, I can't tell how much she is growing, but both my mom and my dad commented that she has grown. I can tell, however, that her cheeks look chubbier.
  • I feel like we haven't been taking enough pictures of her. There's not been a ton of down time with the move and such. We haven't taken any newborn pictures (like a photo shoot), but we plan to take some pictures next weekend. She'll be a month old - already? Time passes fast and slow at the same time, if that makes any sense.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Move to Mesa

Laveen was never the place we wanted to be long-term, particularly after we had school-age kids. We'd been casually perusing home listings since the beginning of the year for the East valley (but not too far East), but hadn't really gotten serious about finding a house - we figured just some time later in the year.

In April, we spent a Saturday with a real estate agent looking at some houses in Mesa that sounded like they fit what we wanted. Most of the houses were okay, one was blah, and one we both really liked. We decided to go ahead and put an offer on the house we liked. There were a couple points where we were uncertain if things would work out, but they did and we closed on the house last Friday. Since then, we've been getting all our stuff moved over from the old house. You never realize just how much junk you have until you need to pack it and move it - our hope/intent is that it will be a long time before we have to move again.

Fortunately, our families helped us move boxes and smaller items last Friday and Saturday, then on Tuesday, we hired movers to help us get all the heavy furniture over. In between and since, Greg has been a cleaning and unpacking machine (and also a whip-cracker), so we've made a lot of progress putting stuff away and getting settled in.

There's still work to be done (blah) . . . I'm looking forward to being able to just chill. It's hard trying to get house stuff done in between feeding and looking after the baby, even with help from my aunt.

The main area left to unpack is my craft space. The reason why it's not done yet is because it's my space and not Greg's. Heh. I need to get on the unpacking so that I can find the monthly baby photo stickers (they are stickers that you put on the baby's clothes from months 1 through 12 and take a picture with every month) that I got from my work baby shower.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Evie at 2 Weeks Old

Evie is 2 weeks old as of this past Sunday.

Weekly baby blog posts such as this may be one of those things where our subsequent children get the short end of the stick. Heh.

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  • Her umblical stump fell off on Sunday.
  • There was a rough night in the middle of the week where Evie woke up at 1:00ish, I fed her, and then she didn't fall asleep for probably 4 or 5 hours. It was frustrating. Greg ended up taking her in the early morning so that I could sleep.
  • Since that rough night, Evie seems to be sleeping better (i.e., following more of a schedule/routine), which has been a relief. I'm not sure if anything that we've tried is what did it, but we don't let her sleep more than about 3 hours a stretch during the day and we try to keep her from sleeping too deeply during the day, though it's hard to wake a newborn who is really asleep.
  • My ankles look thinner than they've been in months. Still not sure about whether I fit into all my shoes since I haven't needed to wear them much.
  • It'd be nice if I didn't have this extra pooch going on in the belly area. I should probably set my expectations appropriately given that it's only been 2 weeks.
  • "I'm a Snugglesaurus Rex and you're my prey." -Greg

Monday, June 6, 2011

Evie at 1 Week Old

Evie is 1 week old as of yesterday.

I can't believe it's already been a week. She'll grow so fast right in front of our eyes and pretty soon she won't be a newborn anymore.

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  • Babies (not just Evie) are born so perfect. Total clean slate! Here's to trying not to mess that up over the next 18 years.
  • It's amazing that this little person was all folded up inside of me. I can't even imagine how she fit in there now that she is out.
  • She is not a super fussy baby who cries all the time.
  • She randomly smiles about who knows what and it is cute.
  • Baby feetsies are incredibly cute.
  • It stinks in the middle of the night when she doesn't go right back to sleep after being fed and instead is all alert and awake.
  • I don't want to use a pacifier, but sometimes it's just so easy when she is fussy, but not hungry.
  • Greg referred to himself as a "snuggleholic" with Evie and it made me laugh.
  • Babies are so flexible and limp when they are asleep that Greg played Toe or Finger with Evie, only with her own toes, and it also made me laugh.
  • Greg took a week off and returned to work today. I miss Greg not being at home with both of us during the day, to hang out and help out.

Evie's Arrival

After being a week past due, we had Evie just a little over a week ago!

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THE STORY:

On Friday, 5/27, I was sitting at about a week past due, so we were scheduled to induce at 3:00 am on that day. At 2:00 am, I called the hospital, as instructed, to check whether there were beds free and was told that there weren't, but maybe later in the day there would be. Throughout the day on Friday and Saturday, we periodically called the hospital to check the bed status and it wasn't until 3:00 pm last Saturday that the hospital called to say that they had a bed free for me and that we should go to the hospital in an hour.

When I first showed up at the hospital, I was only dilated about 1 cm, so essentially no change in progress since the week prior. They started off the process with prostaglandin gels - I got one when I first got into the labor and delivery room and another a few hours later. I was supposed to get them throughout the middle of the night as well, but the night shift nurse monitoring my contractions decided to hold off because she didn't want the contractions to progress too quickly.

When the morning shift nurse came in about 6:30 or 7:00 am on Sunday, she went ahead and gave the third application of the prostaglandin gel, since I hadn't made much progress during the night and I hadn't felt any contractions (despite the monitor showing that I had them). Right after she put in the gel, my water broke. We're not sure if it was because of her putting in the gel, checking how far I was dilated, or if it was just time for the water to break. In any case, that was an encouraging sign that my labor was progressing. After that, they stopped administering the prostaglandin gel and started me on Pitocin. They started me on a low dosage and gradually increased it throughout the day.

By mid-morning, I was pretty uncomfortable with contractions and asked for the epidural. Getting an epidural was always part of the plan - I'm too weenie for natural. For me, the epidural was awesome. It made things a whole lot more comfortable the rest of the time. By about mid-afternoon, the OB doctor on call had stopped in and said that I was making good progress, so we could perhaps have a baby by about dinner time with the way things looked.

Later in the afternoon, we had a little scare in that while the nurse was checking how far I was dilated, I had a persistent contraction that was distressing the baby since her heart rate dropped to the 60s or 70s. When the nurse saw this, she quickly called several other nurses in to help, and they helped me not only change positions (not that easy since I had an epidural), but also gave me a shot of terbutaline to stop contractions. They also had me sign a C-section consent pretty quickly, I assume in case things continued to go downhill. After they stopped the contraction, the baby's heart rate returned to normal, but rather than go off the external fetal monitor, they inserted an internal fetal monitor. The internal fetal monitor has a tiny metal corkscrew at the end that's put into the baby's scalp - poor baby, though I know it doesn't hurt or anything since I can't even find where it went in on Evie's head now.

After that little scare, they took me off the Pitocin for a bit to monitor the baby, then started me back on a low dose. After re-starting me on Pitocin, the contractions were spaced further apart and more consistently than before, with the baby's heart rate holding in the normal range, which was a good sign. They slowly increased the Pitocin over the next few hours, but they noticed my temperature going up, which was a concern since my water broke about 12 hours before. At about 9:00 or 9:30 on Sunday night, the nurse came in to check how far I was dilated and I hadn't really made any progress for a few hours. She also noticed that my cervix was swollen, which was the opposite of what should've been happening. The OB doctor came in a little bit after this and explained that at that point, a C-section was a better option than trying to do a normal delivery because of the risk factors (temperature spike possibly indicating infection, baby being distressed earlier in the day, not progressing for the past several hours).

I was prepared for the possibility of a C-section even before we went to the hospital, but it was not what I'd preferred (and tears were shed over it). In any case, things are what they are, so they prepared me for surgery. Since I already had an epidural, they just gave me more anesthetics to get me through the C-section. The C-section was unpleasant because I was expecting no pain during the whole thing, but actually did feel some pain (not just pressure or pulling), though my tolerance for pain at that point may have been very low. I could tell when they were doing certain things, such as using the scalpel on me, and just the thought of that is scary even now. I could also tell when they pulled the baby out, and it was such a relief to (a) have the baby out and (b) hear her crying almost immediately, though I didn't think at any point during the C-section that she wasn't fine.

They couldn't tell for sure until they did the C-section, but it turned out that Evie's head wasn't in the right position for a normal delivery. Greg says that when she first came out, there was a big lump on her head where it was up against the cervix, and it wasn't the right part of the head that's supposed to come down the birth canal first (the lump has since gone away - I never even noticed it). They also saw that the umbilical cord was around Evie's head, which the nurse told Greg would have made it all the more harder for her to come down the birth canal.

We're very happy that Evie came out all healthy, even if that meant she had to come by C-section. It still seems almost unreal that this whole little person is ours. And also, I had a couple other people tell me that they were really thirsty after giving birth (both normal and C-section) and I have to agree - having ice water after the C-section was so good.

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